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When Did Being Loved Start Feeling Embarrassing

November 04, 2025 • Husband and Life Podcast • Episode 140

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"When Did Being Loved Start Feeling Embarrassing?” | Husband & Life Podcast

In this raw and emotional episode, Kelechi and Stan ask the question nobody’s brave enough to say out loud —
when did being loved start to feel embarrassing?

We live in a world where women post heartbreak but hide happiness.
Where showing your man is seen as “pick-me” behaviour.
And where the soft life got confused with silent love.

This week, we unpack the new fear of modern dating — the fear of being seen happy.
From performative privacy to the pride that hides vulnerability, this episode will challenge everything you’ve been taught about love, independence, and social media shame.
In this episode, we talk about:

Why women hide healthy relationships online

How social media made happiness “embarrassing”

The difference between privacy and secrecy

Modern feminism, fear, and the illusion of independence

How to love out loud without losing yourself

This conversation will make you laugh, reflect, and maybe even call yourself out.
Because real healing starts with honesty — not hashtags.

About Husband & Life

We’re Kelechi & Standish Chapfika — partners in marriage, purpose, and business.
When we’re not unpacking real-life dilemmas on the podcast, we’re helping women and families explore the world and expand their bank accounts through our online travel business, Chapfika Travel.
We show women how to build an extra stream of income from what they already love — travel, freedom, and unforgettable experiences.
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